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The Connection Between Change, Growth and ConflictMar 25, 2008Neil WarnerYou will never know what you can do without challenge and opposition.
You will never develop new skills if sheer necessity does not force you to do so.
In short, without conflict, you will never grow.176conflict:7.1,positive:4.8,important:3.6,problems:2.4,helps:2.4,other\'s:2.4,people:2.4,develop:2.4,skills:2.4,issues:2.4,results:2.4,others:2.4,change:1.2,challenge:1.2,new:1.2,energy:1.2,growth:1.2,opposition:1.2,necessity:1.2,improving:1.2,engage:1.2,telling:1.2,invest:1.2,sheer:1.2,compliment:1.2,sore:1.2,relationship:1.2,points:1.2,making:1.2,together:1.2,challenging:1.2,force:1.2,individual:1.2,clarification:1.2,common:1.2,involves:1.2,having:1.2,connection:1.2,reciprocal:1.2,authentic:1.2,communication:1.2,emotion:1.2,individuals:1.2,humanity:1.2,working:1.2,among:1.2,anxiety:1.2,cooperation:1.2,stress:1.2,builds:1.2,causes:1.2,recognition:1.2,need:1.2,understanding:1.2,resolving:1.2,positions:1.2,learning:1.2,solutions:1.2,limits:1.2,interpersonal:1.2,learn:1.2,right:1.2,way:1.2,provides:1.2,short:1.2conflict:7.1,positive:4.8,important:3.6,problems:2.4,helps:2.4,other\'s:2.4,people:2.4,develop:2.4,skills:2.4,issues:2.4,results:2.4,others:2.4,positive conflict:5.4,opposition
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You are making others a big compliment by having a positive conflict with them!
Conflict is positive when it:
Results in clarification of important problems and issues
Results in solutions to individual or common problems
Involves people together in resolving issues important to them
Causes authentic communication
Helps in working through emotion, anxiety, and stress
Builds cooperation among people through learning the reciprocal limits about each other
Helps individuals develop understanding of other\'s positions and interpersonal skills.
Provides recognition of each Other\'s humanity.
So, you need to learn how to do conflict in a positive way, RIGHT?
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